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DATING TIPS FOR SINGLE LADIES: 10 TOP TIPS FOR ATTRACTING THE ONE

SUCCESSFUL FLIRT TIPS FOR LADIES

1) Laugh and everyone has a laugh with You
Having a great time is catchy and which person doesnâ€™t love hanging around positive people? Distribute good sentiments and get ready for making a great first impression. Focus on positive things and keep the conversationlight hearted, uncontroversial and positive. Feel good about yourself and youâ€™ll often see that others will be drawn to you.
2) Transmit Clear Cues
Sorry ladies but its the case, a huge number of guys are famously terrible at interpreting signals from women. Positive behaviours may simply imdicate youâ€™re a friendly sort of girl. Steer clear of awkward circumstances by being sure of what you are looking for when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear. If you really hope to hook up with men then for sure flirt, just make sure you understand how to distinguish the sexual flirting cues from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting cues.
3) The Big Freeze; a Major No no
Make sure you look appraochable. Sitting like an ice queen won't attract men to you and you could without knowing be sending out 'no no' cues when secretly you're keen for a guy to approach you. Check which signals youâ€™re sending and if it's failing, change them. Why not ask people you trust to give you some contructive crticism?
4) Even Kylie Minogue gets Rejected!
Sometimes things don't work out for whatever reason. The reality is that everyone has experienced rejection in some area of their life. Do not dwell on less than positive responses, alternatively seek compliments, internalise them and dismiss off rejection.
5) Emanate Appeal
One straightforward rule of thumb for any outfit is that if your mother would wear it, you shouldnâ€™t. If you look at your reflection and ponder, "Do I look ridiculous in this?" lets face it - you almost certainly do.
But most importantly, if you feel sexy youâ€™ll come across that way as well. If you feel positive and confident then youâ€™ll be oozing appeal!
6) Let Your Body do the Communicating
Whatâ€™s the trick behind a girl's enchanting effect on men? Being flirtatious with panache. We can all do it. We just need to learn the secrets. The good news? The ability to be flirtatious is innate; itâ€™s about being self assured and being able to sensually be in your body. The other key is understanding body language. Us ladies may worry about how we communicate but in fact it's our bodies that engage in most of the communicating. Communication is 60 per cent non-verbal. So look out for what your body is saying. Scientists say you can heighten your powers of attraction by about 70 per cent if you work on your body language.
7) Show People Your Sexy Glow
If youâ€™re chatting to a man you like then reflect his body language and manner of commuicating and they will feel you have something in common with them. Pull yourself up to your full height and lean fractionally forward, turning your torso towards him more directly, and keep physical barriers out of the way; be sure not to cross your arms like a fortress.
Critically, emanate the appearance of vitality. Come accross as vital, luminous even. Imagine you have just had an incredible romp and have a sexy glow around you.
8) Emulate Madonna
Confidence is probably the most appealing of all characteristics. Give yourself a pep talk before you head out and remind yourself youâ€™re wonderful!.
If you need some assistance in the self assurance department, fake it till you make it. Find a role model you can copy, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Just think how that person would behave, feel and move. Think of what characteristics make her sexy and how she expresses these physically.
9) Be Sure to listen Ladies
The most underrated flirting skill is simply listening. Guys love talking about themselves. They enjoy being the centre of attention. Pose open-ended questions - that is, questions that can't be answered by a yes or no answer. Lower your face, look him in the eyes and nod as he chats - make him feel like the most interesting and amusing man in teh world.
10) Monitor His Signs
Soâ€¦think youâ€™ve met Mr Right? Wondering whether the stud youâ€™ve had your eye on all evening is also interested in you? Itâ€™s time to read the signsâ€¦
Wondering if heâ€™s keen? Notice a few of these signs and you could well be on the money:
â€¢ Looks your way
â€¢ Turns his body towards you
â€¢ Adjusts his tie
â€¢ Slight movement of his hips away from you
â€¢ Leans towards you
â€¢ Smiles whilst looking at you
â€¢ Adopts a friendly body posture
Girls, get out there and put your newfound flirting and dating skills to the test!
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Flirting Tips by Justin Parfitt, The Founder of FastLife Speed Dating, the worlds largest speed dating and singles events service. Fastlife hosts speed dating events in 47 cities in 6 countries including Speed dating in New York and Speed dating Australia

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